Bishop Javier Echevarría speaks to Mark Nel |
The Prelate of Opus Dei came to South Africa for a very brief
visit. He arrived on Friday night, 24 May 2013, and left again on Tuesday
night, 28 May 2013. I wrote about this earlier in my Blog “Prelate
of Opus Dei Visits South African Parish”. I was convinced I would not get to see him in person.
Next to meeting the Pope, the Father - the
Prelate of Opus Dei - is the one person I have most wanted to meet. This is
specifically because of the ministry of Opus Dei and the significant impact
that they have had on my life. I often wonder how I would have coped with this disease and the dire consequences it has had on my life, had it not been for Opus Dei's ministry.
The Father paid a visit to our parish and many of the
parishioners were able to meet him in person on that occasion. I couldn’t
because I am largely housebound and it does take some doing for me to get around. I need an oxygen machine all the time and, more than anything else, it is absolutely exhausting and sheer agony for me to get enough air into my lungs when I do move
around, given how progressed my lung disease is.
The Father also had a get together with about 500 guests at the
Sandton Convention Centre. Again, people had the
opportunity to hear him speak and to ask him some questions. I
was again unable to make this get together.
I was not very happy about being so close to meeting one of the people I have always wanted to meet, yet knowing I was clearly
going to miss what would probably be the best opportunity I would ever have of doing so. Sometimes however
that is unfortunately how life is. I have grown used to my limitations and the
impact of these limitations.
I knew the Father was leaving South Africa on Tuesday
evening. Imagine then how I felt when we received a telephone call and I was suddenly told, late on Tuesday afternoon, with a
couple of hours notice, that the Father was actually going to stop at my
home and greet me on is way to the airport. I couldn’t believe it. I was so excited that I was actually completely numb. I couldn’t believe the news.
Bishop Javier Echevarría visits at home with Mark Nel |
Finally the moment arrived. Bishop Javier Echevarría walked
into my home and there I was, sitting on the couch with the Prelate. We sat there while he spoke with me; words of
encouragement; words of wisdom; amazing words...
Then to my chapel and again time ‘alone’ with him; me
hanging on to every single word that he spoke.
Bishop Javier Echevarría in Mark Nel's chapel at home |
Then it was over. About 30 minutes had passed in a flash.
He needed to leave.
So what can I tell you about this experience? How does one begin
to describe it?
Actually, it is quite simple - I can’t. I don’t think my words
will ever be able to do that time that I spent with the Father, or the words that
he said to me, any justice. It is better that I quietly cherish the moment.
Maybe one day words will come which will help me to do justice to sharing
this truly remarkable experience. Until then I can only cherish the moment and thank God for the ministry of Opus Dei and men like Bishop Javier Echevarría.
Of course I cannot forget Bishop Fernando Ocáriz, Msgr. Jose Andres Carvajal, Msgr. Anton Borras, and Fr. Thomas Gibson who understood my personal situation and who remembered me when they were setting out the Prelates busy agenda. It is their shining example that brings alive the message of Opus Dei that whatever our situation or circumstance, they are opportunities to grow closer to God, serve others and improve society. They clearly thought about others, not just their own situation.
Msgr. Jose Andres Carvajal (left) & Bishop Fernando Ocáriz, Vicar General of Opus Dei |
Bishop Javier Echevarría waves goodbye |
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.Lovely story Mark. It is a true blessing to meet the Father; equally great to know the Work
ReplyDeleteThanks Greg. Was really such an amazing experience.
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